Choose your actions choose your thoughts create your life

Take control of your mind

Dicipline begets more dicipline

Willpower begets more willpower

You need to believe this is a definite fact, see all attributes in your persona and bahvior as skills.

Positive thinking/optimism? Skill

Choosing healthy foods? Skill

Writing a book? Skill

Choosing to record a video for YouTube? Skill

Choosing to ignore the person purposely trying to anger you? Its just another skill you can develop

You must choose to take actions in alignment with what you want in life

If you want to feel happiness and peace, purposely choose to ignore those who are purposely attempting to taunt or upset you. In fact, join the fun and taunt yourself with them. They'll usually give up once you go that far hahaha